Im sure many that read this wonder what my deal is with women. Well, yes I do bitch quite a bit about women. For reasons that I just have seen far too often. I am single and have been since 2002. First I was always depressed about being single. Sometimes it hits but most of the time now I am enjoying being single and able to do as I wish with no one holding me back. Im back on the road with the bands full-time. Slipknot tour I wont be though because of personal matters but the European run was fucking sweet.
Anyways, to get back to the subject of this post. I just really have curious thoughts about women today. Everyone says I go for the wrong women. Ok, im not out trying to date supermodel skinny women here. I cant attract those. Im a fat fuck remember. My last girlfriend is not skinny. She has meat on her! lol. I love her the way she is. Of course that didnt work out but thats ok. I have learned to deal with it and although I may not be 100% over her I will always be protective of her and if some guy tries to use her or beat her I will royally fuck him up. We are still great friends to this day. I enjoy it. People say you cant be friends with a woman but our relationship is living proof.
So anyway, with that said i am not dating skinny women. So how am i going for the wrong women? No matter who i date they all want the same thing. Man with money, nice car, nice home and muscular. Women are probably saying thats bullshit. Think about it. You are at home sitting there with your husband. He is not muscular but yet you love him right? Then when you go out you see some buff dude and you get that sudden wetness down in your crotch and you dont know why. Yes you do know why. because you just saw a man that makes you want him more than your husband. Yeah men do it too but I have never given ANY woman a second glance. When I am with a woman in a relationship thats it. Its her and no one else. Why fuck up a relationship for anything else? I have been out with my ex and seen women that WANT you to notice them and i could care less. Obviously many of them dress the way they do to get attention. I had more fun with my ex-gf being naughty and wanting to “play” than trying to impress some floozy.
Women like to use the power of the pussy to get what they want. I wont fall for that. Sorry. If i am married to a woman or seriously dating someone then yes I would have no issue buying her things as long as she appreciated them and not just flaunted things to make others jealous which I have found many women like to do. the power of the pussy is used all the time. I remember a Dr Phil show where this woman told him that she would not fuck her husband unless he bought her things. Not cheap things but expensive things like jewelry. So you can see where I have my insecurities about women. that doesnt make me unhappy, just makes me more aware of what is at stake.
When you work hard for living and for everything you have you dont want it to all disappear because of some woman that just wants to marry a man for his money. Ive said before, asking a woman to sign a pre-nup is just asking for trouble. If you ask a woman to sign one then it shows insecurity. It makes the woman feel as if though you dont 100% trust her. Can any man 100% trust a woman and vise versa? Seriously, lets theoretically say I dated Britney Spears. What do you think people would say. “oh that guy is just after her money because he is a nobody and has no money himself.” thats right. Thats what you would hear. Now if you take Britney Spears and hook her up with lets say Justin Timberlake. Ok both Britney and Justin have millions. Both are making millions still. So its not really about the money persay but about status. Many celebrity marriages are for show. Keeps them in the spotlight. Like Brad Pitt and that weird wife of his. She is really the man in that marriage! lol…Im surprised she hasn’t told him to sit and shit at certain times yet! lol…
So yeah, my issues with women are about money and love. I just cant say I could really trust someone. I know that if I was to meet someone I would not want them to know where I live or what I do for a living until I felt the time was right. Telling a woman you have money and a good job is like inviting them in forever. I would want to see what happens without all that being known. Kinda like Eddie Murphy did on Coming to America. I think keeping that part of someones life a secret is not a bad thing. It just helps that person truely understand if someone is really in love with them or just in it for the money.
There have been women that have told me they are interested in me. Partially my own fault for leading them on. I take responsibility for that and am sorry. Right now, I just dont want to be married. Yeah I would like to have a child but not one from a one night stand or beacuse the woman wanted me to get her preggers so she could rob me blind. I would want one because the woman I am with loves me and i feel the same about her. I have strong feelings about raising someone elses kids now. I dont have a problem with women having kids. Hell most teenagers by 15 have kids. My issue is some women that want a man to be the father and have her kids call that man father. I never would expect any womans kids that are not biologically mine to call me father or dad or pops. They could call me Gill or whatever. Now if it was my own child then yes I would want him to call me father or dad. I just feel that at this point in my life I am not ready to be a father figure to someone else’s children. The only woman i would be able to do that with is my ex-gf. Her kids became a part of my life. Even if I dont see them all the time. For now though, I would help a woman raise her kids but discipline and calling me dad i wouldnt be comfy with as they wouldnt in calling me something I am not. They have a father already even if he is not active in their lives.
So now that I have cleared that up thats just who I am. Sorry. I always felt I was too old to be a father. I know now I am not. Hell Neil Peart and his wife Carrie just had a baby and Neil is much older than I. So its not too late. I just want to be sure the woman I consider to have kids with really cares and loves me and not just wants money and status or whatever. As a man i am happy with buying regular clothes. I dont buy $500 jeans and $300 shirts. I dont carry a $200 wallet. in fact I carry a Nautica wallet. Thats it. No fancy LV or Coach wallet. So I really wish that some women would learn that these items may be nice to have but dont let them become items of status to show others you are better than them. Being proud of having a purse like that is like owning one and being proud that you saved the money or earned it and bought it. You care for it and treasure it. Women that flaunt them buy a new one it seems every month or so.
So I have BMW motorcycles. That doesnt make me any better than anyone else. In the motorcycle world what I have is shit. Most bikers would say I have a crotch rocket instead of a bike worth traveling on. Most bikers want the usual status quo….a Harley Davidson. yes they are nice but in my opinion overpriced in many ways. You can find a chopper nicely built for much cheaper in many cases. My bikes hold a considerable amount of gas. its great for long distance travel especially with the hard bags but as said, to the bikers of the world i have a speed machine over a true treasure. I see it otherwise. I dont flaunt the bike. I dont park it where people see it and say WOW that mexican has a BMW motorcycle he must be rich….No, a BMW motorcycle can be purchased for half the cost of a Harley brand new! You can buy two new BMW R series bikes for the cost of one Harley depending on the model.
So…..i got off subject. I always do but I just like to write. Its just sad though that many women value their expensive items in a way that makes others jealous. I on the other hand just enjoy my motorcycle to ride. Not to make some guy jealous because that wont happen. the trips are worth more than the bike! Lifetime experiences. I know women that buy purses from a walmart and they are happy with them. They hate it though when women that carry the expensive ones brag about theirs and say things like “that girl has a walmart purse ugh!” Thats why I say i guess the status of what kind of purse you carry must really mean alot to women.
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